well my name is miguel and i am a first time dad.my wife and i brought our son home today for the first time...it has been a wild ride for the last 9 months but i know it was all worth it...i know some dads feel that they struggle with how to divide there love between there new baby and there wife and its a struggle i know i have learned to balance ..i know why i love my wife but i also know why i love my son they are two totaly different reasons but i learned that each reason serves it own purpose.. so if you find your self in that situation find a leval of balance between the two and you will see how much easier it will become to share your love..