by Damian Papworth

Are you ready to be a father? The first year is always the toughest. It's incredibly challenging; but the rewards are well worth it. So, just what does it take to be the best dad you can be? If you're worried about navigating the ins and outs of fatherhood, don't. It may be hard at first, but a little love and care go a long way.

Of course, there are some incredibly hands on, practicable things you ought to know as a new father. Babies obviously aren't simply cute creatures who will be easy to handle. They cry an awful lot. In fact, babies may be finicky. They may cry for hours on end and often, at first especially, it can be hard to decipher the reasons why.

Babies sob and snivel for a huge variety of reasons. When you're a fresh, out of the box parent, so to speak, it can be quite difficult to figure out what to do and how to make it all better. It's times like that when you can feel overwhelmed and also unworthy of being a father. But don't let things like that get you down. It's all natural. Simply try your best; hold your child, comfort her (or him). Don't get caught up on all the rules.

There are no firm, set terms that are the be all and end all of parenting. There's no golden rule that will help you to become the best parent ever.

Being a good father simply takes some effort and a whole lot of TLC. Even if you're clueless or tend to be the more hands-off type, you can still become the father of the year with some practice.

The first few months are probably some of the toughest you'll know. Both you and your partner will be knackered. A new mother has a lot of work to do, what with feeding and tending to the new baby; but that doesn't mean that she has all the knowledge nor does it mean that she should bear the brunt of the work.

The most crucial aspect of being a father is to engage in team work. Don't simply hand off tasks that you don't know how to handle to your partner. Even if she offers to take up for your slack, hang in there, try to do it yourself. Most likely, both of you will be pretty clueless in the beginning, so take this initial period as a time for both of you to explore the joys of parenthood.

There will be a fair amount of fretting and worrying; taking care of a new baby is hard work, and it can be doubly stressing if it's your first time. Although you won't be perfect, everything takes practice, after all, don't let that fact overwhelm you.

Simply get involved. Don't sit out on the sidelines. Always make time for your children.

Spending quality time with your newborn child is crucial to developing a healthy relationship later on.

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Spanking teaches children, especially younger ones, that is okay to hit. Often, parents spank when they are angry and hit the child harder than they intend to. There are many ways to discipline your child without spanking them or being physical with them.

Time Out

Putting a child in time out gives the child time to think about what they did wrong and why they are in trouble. The child should not be in the corner or wherever the time out is to take place longer than there age. They should have 1 minute for each year. If the child speaks, gets up or out of the corner, the time starts over. An egg timer is a good tool to use. The timer is good for the child to be able to know when there time is up. Just saying how long they will be in time out does not work because children have no concept of time.

Take Things Away

Taking things away as punishment often works instead of spanking. Be sure to tell the child why you are taking the object away. Try to make the child understand what it was that he/she did wrong.When taking things away, it should only be one item at a time. For example, don't take all the matchbox cars or barbies away the first time the child does something wrong. Take 1 away and if they repeat the bad behavior then take more away. The favorite toy being taken away usually has the most desired effect. The length of time you keep the item away from the child depends on the child's age. Younger children may not understand why the item is gone for a long period of time and will forget why it was taken in the first place.

Assign Chores

Assigning chores for bad behavior usually only works for older children. A child that doesn't play with toys anymore or is to old for time out will benefit more with assigning chores than younger children. Different household chores can be assigned. Taking out the trash and doing dishes are a couple. Dusting, sweeping or moping are a few more that work. Kids hate to clean the bathroom or there bedroom so those work really well. The idea is to pick something they do not like to do. If your child likes to dust then don't make that a punishment. Older children also tend to learn from what they did wrong when they are made to write sentences about what they did wrong. Usually making them write a sentence saying they will never do whatever it was they did wrong again 100 times works.

Grounding

Sometimes if the offensive/bad behavior is severe enough grounding the child works best. Not letting the child outside to play gets the point across of there bad behavior not being acceptable. Grounding the child from there game system and TV programs also has the desired effect.

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by Audrey Hegarty

Now that we are into November \ December, we can expect to see some grisly weather coming our way. There are stories being thrown about that this winter is set to be one of the coldest in history with night time temperatures to allegedly hit lows of -16. Not a typo I actually did say -16!! Who knows maybe Mr. Crosby's dreams will come true and we will have a white Christmas. This is all very well, but what about those little babies who have just left the warmth and security of their mother's womb, only to arrive in the cold winter world of torrid rain and biting winds and if we are to believe the gossip never before experienced cold snaps!

To prepare your baby for the cold days that are coming, I thought up of some tips for keeping your baby all cosy and warm this Christmas. The main thing we need to take into account is that we don't actually over heat the baby while trying to protect them. Babies can be very resilient in many different ways. They make look very vulnerable but we must be wary of over protecting them.

It's widely believed that its not cold weather that gives baby a cold, rather contact with people who have virus or infection. That doesn't mean that you have to hibernate until spring, rather avoid tightly crowded places for the first 3 months or so until baby has had a chance to strengthen his or her immune system.

It's probably best to avoid unnecessary close contact with persons who have a runny nose or appear to be snuffling greatly! It is best to keep baby's vaccines up to date also. Babies with underlying conditions or premature babies may need extra care, we recommend consulting with your health care practitioner in this case!

In terms of baby clothing your baby will need a pair of soft soled leather shoes or fur lined bootees. These baby shoes will keep a babies' foot warm and they will also prevent baby socks from falling off.

Visit Tiptoe Tots for great prices on baby shoes this winter. You can also purchase baby leggings and baby socks too.

Footnote: It is interesting to note that the UK and Europe are already receiving the heaviest snows in over a decade, and we're still not done with November just yet. Pundits are probably correct, this may well become a very cold winter. On this side of the world, we have the opposite to deal with. A hot summer and how to keep your baby in cool. Coughs and Colds in new born babies is still a worry, even in summer.

by Mary Roadings

Most babies have baby colic during their first year. It is something common to many toddlers, however doctors still can't pinpoint what is the actual cause. They do agree though that many times an upset stomach can often lead to colic, which makes the baby feel bloated as gas is gathered in the intestines. This gas needs to be let out and the best way to do it is by baby massage.

When the child has colic, he or she tends to cry a lot due to the strong pain felt. Many times parents experience a strong sense of panic because of this constant crying as they have no idea what to do, how to help their kid. And often times the cure is really a proper baby massage that stops the crying right away, it's that simple really.

One of the best ways to help your child get relief from stomach pains and colic is by learning how to do baby massage. This will relax the stomach muscles and will stop those nasty spasms that tend to come and go. The baby will be able to pass wind which is accumulated in the intestines.

For massage, use natural oils for best results. Avoid doing the massage right after feeding as this will upset the stomach and cause more pain. Lay your palm flat on the stomach and go clockwise in circling motions a few times over the abdomen. Then use your hand to make a circle around the belly button after which use your fingertips to do the same thing. Finally use again your flat palm to go around the stomach in a clockwise direction as a last exercise.

Next take the legs and do a bit of bicycle exercise with them, one after another one. This will push the wind from the intestines and stomach. After that stretch the legs with an easy pressure applied and then wobble the legs a bit. This will finally eliminate the last wind from the stomach for best results

by Adriana Noton

While our children are growing up we want only the best things for them. Giving them science educational toys which help build their imaginations and strengthen their minds is the perfect way to ensure a healthy and happy child. These toys not only entertain them but teach them about the world and how things within it work and grow. They can also let them have the opportunity to grow plants as wells as hatch tine sea creatures and watch their life cycles.

If your child has interest with the dinosaurs of the prehistoric ages then why not let him see what a real one looked like skeleton wise anyway. These kits come with a complete replica that measure two and a half inches long. Your child can have fun putting this replica together. It is made of durable poly-resin parts, model stand and is painted by hand for more realism and unique character.

Let them grow unique crystals instantly by just adding water and chemicals. They will need a rock and a container for the crystals to grow within and then once water is in the container dissolve the chemicals and watch miraculously as they instantly take form in vibrant colors and shapes. Children can enjoy their crystals for months and once they break or are not looking their best make new ones. This is a kind of chemistry lesson in fun form.

A classic educational toy which also habitats living things is that of the Ant Farms of the early days and still high in popularity today as well. Only now these great farms have new technology to make them even better. Some have illuminated LED colored lights to let your ants live in color. This also helps you to see what goes on in the ant habitat at night as well.

Little girls can experiment with making their own perfect smelling perfumes with kits to do just that. These are simpler chemistry kits that teach them how to mix scents to make beautiful smelling perfumes for them to wear. Most of these kits include ten different perfume essential oils, tiny bottles to place the finished product in and a guide on important things you need to know regarding the perfume industry.

They can live in their habitat up to three months and get at adult stages about three inches in length. Each day you will notice them growing even more. Their coloring is very bright and they oftentimes can be viewed swimming on their backs leisurely. Most habitats cost you but come with about thirty Triops and everything from gravel fossil rocks and food to make their lives healthy and happy.

Remember that interesting and colorful bird who drank water from a glass when you were little? Well they are still around for the kids science of today to enjoy just as much. These birds are all hand-blown in glass and come with their very own stands and drinking glasses. Most have liquid in reds, pinks, blues and yellows in their bottoms. You just fill the glass with water dunk the birds head into glass were the beak goes in and then watch as the liquid travels into the neck and the bird bobs an d drinks on his own.

A favorite of the science educational toys and science lab equipment are the digital clocks which are ran on potato power. This is a true experiment in science any child will be astonished that actually works. Wires which are pushed deep into the potatoes of copper and then zinc cause reactions of reduction and oxidation to submit a very low surge of power which then can run a small digital clock. Try different fruit or garden vegetables for even more entertainment and see if they hold the dame or different effects as well.

by Kelly Nixon

Midwifery has been a popular job that provides health care to pregnant women makes it a rewarding experience and a widely sought career. The salaries vary depending on the experience and is very competitive. Midwives are hired by pregnant women who opt to have their baby born at home in comfort and privacy. Let's learn more about the roles of a midwife.

Midwives in general takes care of pregnant women. Midwives are there to assist pregnant women all through out the pregnancy and even after the baby is born. This means the midwife must attend to her patient when she is in labor until she delivers a child.

The prenatal period is also a part of the pregnancy that midwives help women. As the woman waits for her time to deliver a baby, one major task of a midwife is to provide the necessary assistance and care to her patient. She must make sure her patient learns how to take of herself to avoid miscarriage and other problems.

A midwife does not only take care of the pregnant woman but also to the newborn child. Before and after the birth, a midwife is expected to monitor the condition of the baby so she can give necessary medications for the pregnant mother or the baby. She should also help educate the parents about how to breast feed and baby sit and all the other stuff that parents need to know.

After the birthing process, the least task of every midwife is to give advice and information to both parents. It is mostly information regarding nutrition and how to take care of the baby that she offers to the parents in order for the newborn to be taken well cared for.

You have just read the different roles that a midwife has. A midwife not just helps during the delivery but in educating the parents and the people about what to do before and after the delivery as well. Midwives can be trusted in their expert professional skills for assisting you during labor and delivery

by Soo-Sing Kang

Stomachaches in children happen quite frequently for various reasons, and the frequency increases as soon as they start going to school. When playing with other kids, your child is susceptible to various types of bacteria as well as viruses which can be easily passed on from student to student.

There is more than one culprit of tummy aches - in fact several. Finding the reason for acute stomachaches is not an easy task and requires the experience of a medical professional in order to properly diagnose the illness. The leading cause for stomach-related pains are viruses.

In some cases, you might be able to pin point the cause on your own. With viruses, your kid might experience the symptoms such as fevers, nausea and stomach pains for about a week, sometimes more. Diarrhea might also occur causing loss of fluids so you will keep to keep giving your child plenty of liquids drink. Bacteria or food poisoning symptoms are the same except that they don't last as long (possibly 3 or 4 days depending on the severity). The latter type of infection can be treated by antibiotics to expedite recovery.

Allergic reactions can also produce the effects akin to the previously mentioned. These reactions may be from the bite of an insect or lactose intolerance. It usually starts with stomach cramps, vomiting and dryness of the mouth.

These allergies can be quite dangerous depending on how the child reacts to it but in general, most of the side effects only last a day as long as no further diary food is consumed.

Of all the different types of stomach pains, appendicitis would have to be the worst of all. The pain can be excruciating and appendicitis is more common amongst children than adults. Appendicitis may require surgery to get the appendix removed if the pain persists.

It may not be easy for you to spot these stomach related illnesses in your own kids so you will need to be on the lookout for signs that something is not right. It may come in the form of your kids not eating much or curling up in bed clenching their stomachs. The first protocol would be to get your child to the clinic just to be safe.

As a parent, there is only so much you can do to protect your child's health. Educating your children on hygiene and cleanliness is vital. When these illnesses occur there is nothing much you can do (besides visiting the doctor) except to comfort your child and make sure he or she gets plenty of rest.

Hopefully you have enjoyed reading this article and found it useful. The author also likes blogging about kid's apparel and toys. Her newest stories are concerning the play tea set as well as the wooden tea set for kids.

by Adriana Noton

A child who is playing with a toy, some might argue, is a child learning. Nevertheless, many parents and experts maintain that wooden educational toys are the best toys to teach children when compared to plastic toys.

Wooden toys offer many benefits to the consumer. A quality wooden toy is durable enough to withstand decades of play. Before too long what was once a toy might become a treasured family heirloom.

Wooden toys are much more earth friendly than plastic toys. Wood is an earthly phenomenon, whereas plastic is a human endeavor. This signifies that wooden toy production has a gentler impact on the environment and produces less waste, making a healthier world for all the world's inhabitants. However, the healthy benefits of wooden toys do not end with the environment.

Many wooden toys come untreated or are finished with non-toxic paints. In comparison, recent studies indicate that some plastics can have harmful effects on human health. In addition, wood has antibacterial properties, in fact, a wooden toy in the same room as a plastic toy is said to have less germs. This is important to many parents who understand that their infants chew on toys as often as they touch them.

It is possible to further enumerate the advantages of wooden toys. Dense, grainy, or smooth, many children enjoy touching wooden toys. Some children are drawn to the natural warmth exhibited by the toys, even to the extent that they are soothed and drawn to them. This inherent quality, some might assert, heightens the educational experience of a child, because they might play with a wooden toy more frequently and for longer periods of time. However, wooden toys not only appeal to the sense of touch but also to the sense of smell. Many wooden toys are carved from aromatic woods and thus provided further sensory stimulation for children.

There are numerous wooden toys said to promote learning. Toys for learning are meant to encompass the social, intellectual, emotional, and physical growth of a child. An infant might first play with a chew toy or a rattle. This experience begins to develop the their motor-skills and sensory levels.

There are toys geared towards older infants and toddlers. At this age children are beginning to understand spatial relationships between objects and to identify colors and shapes, in addition, they are still developing coordination. Wooden sorting toys or wooden stacking games are perfect to engage these skills. Moreover, children can gain awareness of balance and hand and eye coordination though play with large building blocks (later on they will graduate to basic building blocks).

For children who are a little older there is a wide variety of wooden toys to choose from. These children will enjoy learning about animals on the farm, at the zoo or in the wilderness by playing with wooden animal sets. They may even feel like they have traveled to all those places. They can also better understand everyday life within their house and community when they place with housekeeping, baking and building sets. Wooden number and letter sets develop language and counting skills. Also, these children might still want to engage with wooden toys geared towards younger children: rattles and stacking games. Just as they might want to adventure out towards more analytical toys, such as puzzles and mazes.

Many older children want the challenge of toys that engage their analytical skills. Whether they enjoy puzzles, mazes and labyrinths, model building or play sets, wooden toy makers will likely have something to engage their imaginations and challenge their critical thinking skills. Regardless of a child's age, some experts and parents agree that wooden educational toys promote a child's confidence, encourage the use of their imagination, and create fun.

Buying baby toys isn't just to provide your child with a fun activity - it's also to help them learn! Shopping at local toy stores will provide you with educational toys that are both enlightening and fun, all at the same time!

by Riko Kawasaki

How many times have you said that your life revolves around your kids and yet, when they come and ask for attention, you put them off? In this busy world where most of the time, both parents work hard to make ends meet, children are often left alone with nannies or grandparents that, naturally, kids would always try to seek your attention.

Realistically speaking, no one is a Super Mom or a Super Dad that they can spend all their non-office hours with the kids. Understandably, some of you would want a certain level of peace and quiet after a hard day in the office. But, on the other hand, your little one had probably waited the whole day for your return just to be with you. They may scream, laugh, thrown tantrums, show you their new antics just to vie for your attention. In other words, they are asking for some bonding moments with you.

It has always been said that quality time is more important than quantity of time spent with the kids. Thus, allot a few hours each day to really get to know them better and know how they spent their time away from you. And when you spend time with them, ensure you are there both in body and mind. Give them your full attention - physically and emotionally.

Bonding time doesn't have to be an expensive activity for you and your kids. Do things together. If you don't have time to bond at night, then do it first thing in the morning. Have breakfast together and talk about the things that happened to them the day before, and plans that they might have for the day.

Give them unexpected treats. It's those little surprises that really count a lot. You don't have to wait for an occasion to give them something. Make them feel special by buying those small tokens that reminded you about them while you were away. It simply shows that you despite your hectic time at work, you are always thinking of them.

Don't forget to say the three all-important words every day. Constantly assure and re-assure them of your love so they grow confident and loving individuals with a high level of self-esteem. Knowing and feeling they are loved will help them conquer any feelings of insecurities.

Lastly, accompany your "I love yous" with hugs and kisses. Touch is a strong way of showing your love to them. Shower your kids with hugs and kisses and see how they respond back to your actions. More than anything, see how their hugs and kisses heal you of your own anxieties and discomforts - even you will feel gratifying love.

by Ed Simmons

A high chair is one piece of baby furniture that you just cannot neglect. They come in really handy whether you're feeding your baby at home, or out in a restaurant (we shall cover more on this later). When investing in a chair, don't try and be stingy with money - put in a few more dollars to buy something that's going to help make feeding times more convenient.

There are just so many brands of high chair out there to choose from, and if you already have a few different chairs in mind that you like then that's great! The following tips will help you further narrow down the possibilities and choose the safest and best high chair for your baby's needs.

Baby high chairs come in 2 varieties. The foldable and the non-foldables. The high chair can be the classic wooden or a light-weight aluminum chair that can be effortlessly shifted from room to room, or stored in the boot of the family car. Their purpose? To raise the baby to table height so that so she can join the rest of the family for a meal.

There are just so many styles and brands of baby chairs available for you to choose, but rather than considering price first, you should be looking first at your baby's safety. Find out if that particular model you're looking at buying meets high safety standards (with features like 5-point safety harnesses). You'll want a comfortable and safe seat for your little one.

Since babies are naturally messy little creatures, save yourself a lot of time and hard work by buying a baby high chair that can be easily cleaned - look for those that come with dual trays which are also dishwasher-safe. The foldable chairs are also a great way you can save space if you're a young family living in a small city apartment.

While you're at it, you might like to consider also buying a portable high chair, just in case you decide to take your little one along with you for a family dinner or outing. Do not depend on restaurants to provide you with high chairs for dining. Most places will probably not have any and even if they do, you wouldn't want your baby sitting in them. These cheap chairs are not only dirty but are also very flimsy and are easy to tip over.

Portable seats or high chairs these days are fairly inexpensive and they're well worth considering. Most of the current models will allow you to hook the seat over a chair via a sling. Most importantly, the portable baby seat should be light enough so you don't strain yourself carrying around and it should also include a good height-adjustable feature.

There are certain models of portable baby seats that allow you to clip it to the table's edge. This is great as the baby can be closer to the table and the rest of the family and doesn't require the use of a chair. It can also be more sturdy compared to the chair sling models. For safety's sake, before you attach this kind of baby high chair to any table, check to make sure the table is strong enough and will not topple over.